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You really can decipher an incredible amount from what a guy says even on the first few dates.

Look at the language he uses, look at the nature of his life and see if yours fits in with your vision for your life.

a random encounter at a water cooler or while waiting to get on a particular machine, etc. For instance, if you observe a chick who warms up with an elaborate floor routine that's focused on her abs, then create note of it.

Link it up with something specific about that girl (give her some private, cutesy name like "ab-work Annie" in your own head) to form a mental association, and then file this scrap of info away into your memory bank.

Some of you will be better at this than others, what can I say?

What does he talk about regarding his career; what are his long-term plans?

These have a lot to do with whether he is willing to commit.

Just make sure you’re asking out of interest; no guy wants to feel like he’s being tested! Why is he on his own and what’s the reason for that?

Is he on his own because he is a strong guy and is happy to wait for the right person, or does he enjoy having casual flings?

About the only non-intrusive thing you CAN do is make solid eye contact wherever possible and quickly shoot them a friendly smile, without actually saying anything (since she can't hear anyway).

If you get a good return look from her then you might have a play, but I usually store these up and wait to act on a similar positive read next time, not immediately.

The truth is that it’s not about age, it’s about the personality type you’re dealing with.

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